This is your life, your health, your future, your decision.
The best way to make the right decision for you is to have the information so you can make an informed choice.
Have a look at the pages in this ‘youth section’ – get the facts. Let us know if you want more information on any specific area.
Useful Information
Young People’s Patient Satisfaction Survey
Please complete survey and hand in at reception. The questions have been written by young people to access their satisfaction with how they are treated at the Surgery.
Easy To Understand Health Information see links below:
Family Lives:
Community group for people living with HIV in the Northeast:
Young Persons – Confidentiality
If you are under 16 and have queries about confidentiality around your healthcare the below documents may be of interest for you to read/print out:
Information for parents:
Alcohol & Drug
Be Alcohol Aware
From the second you take your first sip, alcohol starts to affect your body and mind. Some of the alcohol effects disappear overnight – but others can stay with you a lot longer or indeed become permanent.
While drinking alcohol can make you feel happy carefree and part of the group, it can also make you vulnerable more likely to take risks.
Want more information on Alcohol? Click on the link below:
Drugs
Want information and help regarding drugs and alcohol? Click on the link below:
Safer Sex
When you decide to have sex, consider the possibility of pregnancy and/or catching a sexually transmitted infection (STI) such as chlamydia or gonorrhoea. It’s important to talk about contraception and condoms before you have sex. Both of you have a responsibility to have this conversation.
Using Condoms
Condoms to reduce the risk of catching an STI, whoever you are having sex with. If you’re a boy/girl couple, you need to use an additional form of contraception to prevent an unintended pregnancy.
Lesbian, gay or bisexual couples
Click for further information – MESMAC North East website
If you have lesbian, gay or bisexual sex you can still get or pass on STIs. You still need to know about contraception in case you have straight sex as well.
Choosing the right contraception
There are many different kinds of contraception, including the implant, injection, the combined pill and the progestogen-only pill. Most kinds of contraception are used by girls, but both of you have a responsibility to consider which you will use. A pregnancy will affect both of you.
Sometimes the time is not right to start a family and you need to know your options for contraception or in some cases termination of an unplanned pregnancy. Advice is available from your local family planning CaSH clinic or GP surgery.
CaSH Clinics
TEL: 0191 569 9966.
Clinics held at:
- Houghton PCC
- Washington PCC
- Bunnyhill PCC
- Sunderland Royal Hospital
- Palmer Community Hospital
Or you can contact: Chester-le-Street hub: 03000 261 112
For advice nhs/private termination – information Newcastle bpas clinic: www.bpas.org/clinics-php?clinic=65
If you are worried or do not wish to see your GP regarding termination you can self-refer to:
- Ward 40 Day Unit RVI Hospital Newcastle
- Tel: 0191 282 9300
OR
- Durham & Darlington
- Tel: 01388 455333
- Clinics held at UHND or Chester-le-Street
Are you ready for sex?
Most people have sex for the first time when they’re 16 or older, not before. If your mates are bragging about having sex, it’s possible that they’re pretending. Although there’s a legal age of consent, it’s not necessarily the right age that you feel ready to start having sex.
There are no rules about how long you have to be going out with someone before your ready. Being ready happens at different times for everyone – don’t decide to have sex just because your friends are pressuring you.
Deciding when to have sex
Working out whether you’re ready is one of life’s big decisions. You’re the only one who can, and should, decide. Whether you’re thinking about losing your virginity or having sex again. It’s your choice to choose whether you want to have sex, whoever you’re with. Just because you’ve done it before, even with the same person, doesn’t mean that you have to do it again.
Talking about sex
It’s better to have an embarrassing discussion about sex than an embarrassing sexual encounter before you’re ready. There are lots of things to think and talk about, such as:
- are you both ready?
- will you be having sex for the right reasons and not because of peer pressure?
Sex isn’t the only aspect of a relationship, and there are other ways of enjoying each other’s company. You can do other things that you both like, such as talking, meeting each other’s family and friends, going to the cinema, doing sport, walking, and listening to music.
Feeling Comfortable
You need to have the confidence to work out how you want to respond if sex comes up, and how far to go. Ask yourself if you feel comfortable. Is it the right time, the right place, and with the right person? Do you really trust the person, and do you feel the same way about one another?
If you think you might want to have sex, ask yourself?
- Does it feel right?
- Do I love my partner?
- Does he/she love me just as much?
- Have we talked about using condoms, what did we decide?
- Have we got contraception organised to protect against pregnancy?
- Do I feel able to say ‘no’ at any point if I change my mind, and will we both be OK with that?
If you answer yes to all these questions, the time may be right. But if you answer yes to any of the following questions, it might not be:
- Do I feel under pressure from anyone, such as my partner or friends?
- Could I have any regrets afterwards?
- Am I thinking about having sex just to impress my friends or keep up with them?
- Am I thinking about having sex in order to keep my partner?
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to have sex. Even if you’ve done it once or twice you still need to make sure that your boyfriend or girlfriend is as keen as you each time.
Mental Health and Wellbeing
Please click on some of the useful links below for further information: